Women HATE Other Women!
Posted on : 24-07-2009 | By : Single in SF City | In : There is no category for this one..., Tips
Before I say anything, watch this:
Is he lying?
It’s riduculous, right?
Ladies, why is it that other women have the tendency to snub us? Seriously, it’s happened to me countless times, for no apparent reason it seems.
There have been too many days when I roll out of bed, don’t comb my hair, run errands looking like crap, pop into a clothing store for a sec, and the sales chicks refuse to greet me or offer to help even though they’re not busy.
What’s up with that? You’d think that they’d at least want to make some money, right?
I was at a wedding recently when an old-school guy-friend introduced me to his lady. What did she do? She said “hi” and walked away. Didn’t reach out to shake my hand or say anything else to me.
On top of that, I’ve had female flight attendants blatantly ignore my requests. I’ve had female acquaintances enter my apartment without saying a word to me. Most commonly, if I’m waiting at the bar with my girlfriends, it’s likely that a female bartender would ignore us, or take FOREVER to act like she notices us waiting.
It’s not just me or my group of friends. I’ve heard the same from women everywhere! Women are so freaking caddy. Tune in to the “Real Housewives” if you want to know what I’m talking about.
Some of the reasons I’ve heard women act like this:
*Insecurity
*She’s afraid you’ll take her man
*Jealous
*She’s threatened by your personality.
One piece of advice I’ve heard: “If you’re a woman even remotely attractive, you have to disarm another lady with a smile”.
OK, fine. I’m not even saying that I think I’m remotely attractive. But in my opinion, a woman who acts like this is pathetic, I’m sorry.
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It’s natural that most woman prefer to be the dominate one and when they feel threatened or like they are being judged they will put up their personal defense system and turn in to a bitch. I agree the main reason that people act like this is from
*Insecurity
*She’s afraid you’ll take her man
*Jealous
*She’s threatened by your personality.
So just be the better person and let it roll off your back and always remember “fu bitches” you are a Diva and making that person happy is not going to do anything for you & your life. “Do unto others as you would have them do to you”
Hey Girl!
I totally agree with you about “Doing onto others…” I just wish women would take that same approach and be respectful towards each other. My “pathetic” observation still holds true. I think it’s pathetic that women can’t see beyond their own caddiness.
I know men do it too, but I think their “rudeness”–if you want to call it that–stems from something else, like dominance or something.
But yeah, the woman thing…I try to let it roll of my back as much as possible, even when it’s totally obvious what’s happening. I’m a lover, not a fighter
I have 11 and 9 year old daughters, and lemme tell ya, this starts early. The informal/formal term is “girl bullying” and, since my oldest was confronted with this 2 years ago, I have read quite a bit on the subject. This kind of behavior early on in the female psyche tends to manifest itself in various ways later on in the adult female, not limited to the behavior outlined in the thread. Guys are generally immune to this type of behavior, the subtlety of female attack is not in most men’s confrontational makeup.
It’s very interesting.
VERY VERY interesting! I didn’t realize that it started so young. Or maybe I just never noticed it when I was younger.
So did your research reveal why men are immune to this type of behavior? Do tell!
Yes, my research did address this anomaly. It’s really quite simple, generally speaking, men cope with confrontations different than women. Men don’t get emotional, they get physical, and women are the opposite. It all goes back to “sugar and spice and everything nice.” Girls are taught to be quiet, respectful and pliable. All one has to do is go to a park and see kids play, boys are almost always doing something physical, throwing sand, wrestling, doing something dangerous/not what they are supposed to be doing, meanwhile the girls are playing nice and orderly. Generalizations aside, of course.
I read Odd Girl Out, very good reading, informative. http://www.rachelsimmons.com/index.htm
Men sometimes we get bored but what ever you do please don’t keep a brother in the house all the time because once he gets out its a RAP!
He is really going to get wild in the streets or bars what ever he enjoys doing.
Seriously…I’m so happy I’m a guy with posts like this. Guys don’t feel like this at all. I don’t know of one event where a guy would snub another guy for these reasons or any reason at all.
If I don’t like my ex’s new boyfriend, big whoop. I’ll still be somewhat civil. But, I’ll snub him AFTER I’m outta earshot/sight. Why be catty like that?
I guess there is an advantage to men being unemotional
I think it is competiton – survival of the fitness. But it should not be that way. Women should treat women life friends, not foes
Hey Gary. I totally agree with you. The “mean” women are trying desperately to survive! I guess that’smodern day Darwinism
“mean” is the operative word. “mean girls” make “mean women”
http://www.rachelsimmons.com/index.htm
survival of the “fitness”? that’s new
Oh, these fingers move so fast! Survival of the “fitness” is also true. No one wants an unfit mate