Interracial + Dating = Friction (A Post from San Francisco’s Johnny)
Posted on : 11-07-2009 | By : Single in SF City | In : Tips, WHOOP WHOOP!
Date story:
Back when I was a pup, I dated a african american woman that was very hot. Living in the bay area, and, being white and clueless/colorblind, I had NO IDEA what was in store for me. In the city, no one really cared. if we went to the burb’s like /Richmond or El Cerrito, the brothers were hating big time. I just didn’t get it, but, once I did start to get it, I noticed different behaviors all around.
White chicks, black chicks, black dudes, white guys and everyone in between, all were very interested/shocked/pissed off at this mixed race couple in front of them.
My biggest mistake??? Just to show how clueless I really was, I took her to New Orleans for Mardi Gras!!! Holy shit, the names she was called, the names I was called. Major eye-opening experience. Ultimately, our relationship didn’t work out, no doubt, in part due to our different races and the “friction” that said relationship caused. I just looked at her as an attractive person, others looked at me as an invader/thief.
Just odd.


