Want a Good Man? Then Don’t….
Posted on : 05-05-2009 | By : Single in SF City | In : Never Again!, Tips
I’m a good catch 
Lots of us are.
But I’ve seen and done some things that would never get me a good man!
Ladies, if you want a decent guy, you gotta be a decent girl.
Here are five things NOT to do….
1. Don’t get drunk in front of a guy.
Pretty self explanatory, right? But why do so many girls get sloppy-wasted in front of a guy? If you’re on a date and drinks are involved, pace yourself!!! One, or two drinks MAX. And if he’s gonna buy you drinks, then he better buy you food too.
See my post: When It’s time to Go Home, You Got to Get the F*** Out
Nuff Said!
2. Don’t offer to pay.
I’m sorry, but why do girls offer to pay on the first or even second date? I would never even offer, because what if a guy takes you up on that offer? It would be a super red flag if he did. But who cares? Don’t even go there!
It’s not a woman’s place to pay for dinner or drinks. If you offer and he says “yes”, it’s your fault!
3. Don’t accept a date invitation by text!
OK, when a guy texts “hi, hello…”, that’s fine. But if he asks you out via text-message, DO NOT ACCEPT! Yes, times are-a-changin’, but this one is a no-brainer. I’ve had a handful of guys try to ask me out on a date via text, and I can’t help but think to myself, “Damn, is he too lazy to call me to make plans?”
When a girl accepts a text-message invitation, I think it sends a message to a guy that it’s ok to be lazy.
That’s just my humble opinion
4. Don’t talk about money.
I won’t ever let a guy take me into a conversation about money. Trust me, so many guys have tried to lead me into that subject, but I back out without hesitation. WHY? Because how much money a woman makes is NONE of a guy’s business.
I’ll write more on this subject later, but for now, just know that if a guy is prying into your financial life, it’s a TOTAL red flag.
Letting him into your financial situation is like givin up the “goods” too soon, if you know what I mean.
5. Don’t act like a hoe.
How many of us have made this mistake? I won’t say if I have or not, ha ha! Acting like a hoe entails MANY things.
What’s on the list? Givin it up on the first date, booty calls, being too easy in general.
If you have self respect, then demand the same from the guy!http://surveygizmo.okccontest.sgizmo.com?c=208.
Sorry hun, but I just can’t agree with points 2 and 5. The other points seem solid though.
If a woman wants to, and is financially able to, why not pay? It doesn’t infer anything.
There’s nothing wrong with giving it up on the first date, or even the first meeting. You’re not a ho if you do. Just be selective of who you give it up to.
Thanks for your comment Reno!
But hey, we can agree to disagree
I’m a total modern girl, but I guess I’m old fashioned in some way. I think a man should be a man and absolutely offer to pick up the tab on a first or second date. If a girl offers to pick up the tab, I think she sends a message that she is dominant and will walk all over the guy in the relationship. Even worse if the guy accepts a woman’s offer to pay, it shows that he is incapable or passive.
As far as not sleeping with a guy on a first date…well…there’s not too much I can say there. To me it just sends a message that he doesn’t have to work that hard. Easy come, easy go.
That’s my story and I’m stickin’ to it
I agree with you Single in SF City.
Most guys these days are so lazy, they want the woman to do all of the work. But men are supposed to provide and if he likes the girl, why would he let her pay?
Well I have to say that I love it when someone agrees with me
Ha ha.
But really, I do think you’re right. Men these days are toooooooo passive. It’s not the way it was meant to be!
I totally agree with all these points. Men is hard to reading their mind.
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